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Christmas, The Holidays, New Year, \u2026.\u00a0 I so often hear people saying they feel sad, they feel alone, they feel isolated, …<\/p>\n
How can you stop feeling alone?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n How can you create a life in which you never feel \u2018left out\u2019 again?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Read my \u2018Christmas\u2019 blog to find out! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n If you often feel as if you\u2019re alone in this world, as if no one understands you.<\/p>\n If you often feel like an outsider, as if you don\u2019t belong.<\/p>\n Then that\u2019s an invitation to look very closely at the people that surround you.<\/span><\/p>\n Who are they?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Are they like-minded people?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Do they have the same values, dreams?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Do they live a similar lifestyle?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n These questions are very important.<\/p>\n Because once you\u2019ve found your \u2018crowd\u2019, you\u2019ll finally have that feeling of \u2018coming home\u2019, of being where you belong.<\/p>\n That feels so good because you don\u2019t have to pretend anymore, you can finally be YOU.<\/p>\n That is what I wish for all of you!<\/p>\n Find your group, your flock, your herd,<\/p>\n whatever you name it,<\/p>\n and thrive!<\/p>\n In order to find your like-minded people,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n you first have to know, and define, your vision.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Make it very clear:<\/p>\n Who am I?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n How do I want to live?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n How do I want to relate to people?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n What is important to me?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n How do I see our planet? <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n As something that is here to serve us, or just the other way around:<\/p>\n as our home, as a place in which we have the privilege of living, of enjoying nature and all its beauty.<\/p>\n What are my values?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n How do I see health care, politics, <\/em>\u2026<\/em>?<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n And so on, and so on.<\/p>\n Ask yourself all of these questions and be very honest with yourself.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Listen to what your heart says<\/strong> <\/span>and not to what your mind is telling you to do.<\/p>\n Your mind tells you what other people taught* you, what other people think is how it is supposed to be.<\/p>\n Find a very quiet spot and put your hands on your heart when you \u2018listen\u2019 to your answers.<\/p>\n Once you have your own, very clear vision,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n keep your focus on living according to that vision,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n and you\u2019ll see that like-minded people \u2018suddenly appear\u2019,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n seemingly out of nowhere.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Where you used to feel weird, not normal, unaccepted, alone, \u2026 because you were frequenting the \u2019wrong\u2019 crowd, now,<\/p>\n once you\u2019ve found the \u2018right\u2019 crowd, the crowd where you belong,<\/p>\n you\u2019ll suddenly feel invited to be YOU, just you.<\/p>\n Finding these people, the crowd you belong to,<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n is the greatest joy you can find, it is the missing part you\u2019ve been looking for your whole life.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n My invitation to you all this week is:<\/strong><\/p>\n Clear out all the clutter in your life<\/em>,<\/span><\/p>\n make room for the real you,<\/p>\n get rid of all that does not \u2018feel\u2019 like you,<\/p>\n and you\u2019ll get a very clear vision of what you want your life, and the people in it, to look like!<\/p>\n Simplify your life,<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n say no to all the \u2018obligations\u2019 that have nothing to do with how you see the world, with how you want to live your life.<\/p>\n Be very aware of what makes you happy and what not.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n Keep in your life what gives you energy,<\/p>\n ditch what depletes you.<\/p>\n Look at all aspects** of your life:<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n clutter in your house,<\/span><\/p>\n unhealthy habits,<\/span><\/p>\n self-imposed obligations,<\/span><\/p>\n negative thoughts.<\/span><\/p>\n These are all things that eat up all of your energy without us even realizing it.<\/p>\n In my book \u201cLess is Yes!\u201d I guide you step by step through that process of clearing out:<\/p>\n all of the \u2018too much\u2019,<\/p>\n all of the \u2018draining habits\u2019,<\/p>\n all of the \u2018letting other people define how you should be\/feel\u2019.<\/p>\n Take back control<\/p>\n of who you are,<\/p>\n of who you want to be,<\/p>\n of your energy.<\/p>\n Feel light again, feel happy, feel at home, feel accepted.<\/p>\n Find your group of like-minded people!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n And you\u2019ll never feel alone again!!<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n I wish you all a joyful reading, the intention and the courage to get rid of your \u2018garbage\u2019 and lots and lots of happy energy flowing through your body and mind (again)!!!!<\/p>\n Happy Holidays and make 2024 YOUR year, a year in which you\u2019ll \u2018find\u2019 YOUR crowd, a year in which you\u2019ll always feel connected to like-minded people.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n