{"id":7177,"date":"2026-02-12T16:57:58","date_gmt":"2026-02-12T15:57:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifecoachwomen.be\/no-blaming-no-shaming-no-complaining\/"},"modified":"2026-02-12T16:57:58","modified_gmt":"2026-02-12T15:57:58","slug":"no-blaming-no-shaming-no-complaining","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifecoachwomen.be\/en\/no-blaming-no-shaming-no-complaining\/","title":{"rendered":"No Blaming, No Shaming, No Complaining."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-6787 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/lifecoachwomen.be\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/10\/To-feel-good-you-must-be-able-to-see-good-purple1-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"405\" height=\"405\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wherever I look lately, whomever I speak to, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">all and everyone seems to be on a low vibrational frequency<\/span>. Even me.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">What is happening?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Why is it, apparently so much easier to complain, than to focus on the positive things arounds us?<\/p>\n<p>I felt myself slipping, and thinking more negative thoughts than positive ones. And I know, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">life can throw us some curveballs but it\u2019s up to us to decide what to do with them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I decided that I\u2019ve had it, that I am done with being on this low frequency.<\/p>\n<p>I felt that I was losing my ability to always see the good in things.<\/p>\n<p>So, as you know, and as I have written over and over, <strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">we and only we, can make a change in the way we feel and in the way we act.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>High time to change back to feeling content, to being happy, to enjoying all the beauty there is to be experienced in life.<\/p>\n<p>I decided to, on the one hand, <strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">start thinking more positively again<\/span> <\/strong>as I know I can and as I know makes me feel way more joyful, and on the other hand, <strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">distance<\/span><\/strong> myself in a gentle way <strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">from all the nay-sayers, from all the complainers, from all the people whining all the time.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Life is too short to focus on what is lacking, on how bad things are, \u2026.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">It\u2019s all a matter of choosing how you want to feel in life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I think, or rather I am sure, I am not the only one struggling to not get overwhelmed with all the harshness in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">I invite you all to decide<\/span> together with me, this very moment, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">you\u2019ve had enough, and that you\u2019ll choose positivity, kindness, and compassion from this moment on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>As the Law of Attraction teaches us, we will attract what we send out, so it\u2019s high time lots and lots of people start sending out gratitude, kindness, and love.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">The more people living on a higher vibrational frequency, the higher the frequency of the world.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you in?<\/p>\n<p>Do you want to see the beauty of the world?<\/p>\n<p>Do you want friendly conversations?<\/p>\n<p>Do you want kindness?<\/p>\n<p>Do you want to feel peaceful? Relaxed?<\/p>\n<p>I promise you, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">the moment you consciously change your thoughts<\/span> whenever you feel yourself slipping back to harsh thoughts, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">is the moment you\u2019ll start feeling more inner peace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Whenever you feel yourself starting to reply in an unkind tone, stop. Think about how a more loving reply would sound, and say it that way, or be silent if you can\u2019t think of a kinder reply.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Look for things to do in life, where you feel you\u2019re helping to make the world, nature, a better place.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">The less you think about personal gain, about personal success, the easier it is to feel contentment, to be happy.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">The more you feel gratitude, the more you\u2019ll see and hear things to be grateful for.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Feel compassion.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Look for silence.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Go into nature.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It may seem as if I am repeating the same message over and over again, and that is because I do :-).<\/p>\n<p>Because I know <strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">it\u2019s the only way to change how you feel, it\u2019s the only way towards positivity.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It sounds simple enough, but that doesn\u2019t mean it\u2019s easy.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Go step by step<\/span> towards thinking happy thoughts.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">Be patient.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Whenever you slip, <span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">get back up again and continue<\/span> the path of happiness.<\/p>\n<p>As dr. Wayne Dyer said it\u2019s not a destination, <strong><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">happiness IS the way.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I wish you all the courage and the perseverance to walk the path.<\/p>\n<p>I know we can.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff00ff;\">I know that we can leave the world a better place because of our choices.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Thank you all for reading me, and for supporting me on Medium! If you want unlimited access to all of my articles, and of many other authors, you can become a Medium Member. You\u2019ll be supporting me and all the other authors. Many, many thanks to you all!!!<\/p>\n<p>Katrien<\/p>\n<p>*\u201dAsk and it is Given.\u201d by Esther and Jerry Hicks.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Wherever I look lately, whomever I speak to, all and everyone seems to be on a low vibrational frequency. Even me. What is happening? Why is it, apparently so much easier to complain, than to focus on the positive things arounds us? I felt myself slipping, and thinking more negative thoughts than positive ones. 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