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On ne d<\/em><\/strong>\u00e9<\/em><\/strong>truit pas les t<\/em><\/strong>\u00e9<\/em><\/strong>n<\/em><\/strong>\u00e8<\/em><\/strong>bres en luttant contre elles, mais en allumant la lumi<\/em><\/strong>\u00e8<\/em><\/strong>re.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n On ne d<\/em><\/strong>\u00e9<\/em><\/strong>truit pas le mal en luttant contre lui, mais en faisant le bien.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n On ne d<\/em><\/strong>\u00e9<\/em><\/strong>truit pas la haine ou la peur, en s\u2019 acharnant contre elles, mais en laissant montrer la tendresse et l\u2019amour.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n C\u2019est en allant vers l\u2019Est, qu\u2019on s\u2019 <\/em><\/strong>\u00e9<\/em><\/strong>loigne de l\u2019Ouest.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n C\u2019est en allant vers plus de vie, qu\u2019on d<\/em><\/strong>\u00e9<\/em><\/strong>passe la mort.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n C\u2019est en allant vers ce qui dure, qu\u2019on est libre de ce qui ne dure pas.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n Placide Gaboury.<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n I really love this poem by Gaboury. In fact, it\u2019s an elaboration of what Gandhi said with his quote: \u201cBe the change you want to see in the world. \u201c, which is my absolute favorite quote.<\/p>\n The older I get, the more I try to live by this philosophy. I try to, no longer fight against what I feel is wrong, but instead, live according to what I believe is right.<\/p>\n The more I learned about energy, about the law of attraction*, the more I realized that fighting, being angry, condemning, judging**, \u2026. is not the way to make change happen.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Like the poem says:<\/p>\n If you want the darkness to disappear, switch on the light.<\/span><\/p>\n If you want \u2018the wrong\u2019 to go away, do right by yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n If you want hate and fear to go away, show love and tenderness yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s by removing yourself from the West, that you\u2019ll get closer to the East.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s by living more deeply, that your fear for death will disappear.<\/span><\/p>\n It\u2019s by living more consciously, more aware of what really matters, that you\u2019ll free yourself from a superficial, trivial life.<\/span><\/p>\n As you can\u2019t find a solution on the same vibrational frequency of the problem, <\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n you will not create the life you long for by living on the frequency of all that you do not want.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n That is why I invite you all to make the change yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n Imagine how you would like the world to look like.<\/p>\n Imagine what you want more of.<\/p>\n Imagine how you like to be treated.<\/p>\n Imagine health.<\/p>\n Imagine love.<\/p>\n Imagine peace.<\/p>\n Imagine a clean planet.<\/p>\n Imagine compassion.<\/p>\n Imagine solidarity.<\/p>\n Imagine all the things helping to create this beautiful place.<\/p>\n Imagine this dream we all long for.<\/p>\n Feel how it will feel once all those things become a reality.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Doing this will bring you on this higher vibrational frequency.<\/span><\/p>\n Living that way, makes you feel that way, and when you feel good, it\u2019s a lot easier to do good.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n We all know that once we fall back onto the vibration of irritation, of anger, of judging, of fear, \u2026it becomes hard to see things in a positive light.<\/p>\n The moment you feel yourself slipping back, visualize your ideal world again, call up your positive thoughts, and by doing that, you\u2019ll feel the change in your mood.<\/span><\/p>\n Once you\u2019re off that lower vibration again, things will start to look up, things will start to work out again and you\u2019ll feel yourself perking up again.<\/p>\n That\u2019s why you always have to be very aware of how you think and of how you speak.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n Train*** yourself to switch back to that higher frequency every time you feel low.<\/span> People of my generation will still remember the radios we had in our youth. You had to actually turn a button to change the frequency when you wanted to listen to a different radio station. That is exactly what you need to do in your mind, whenever you feel frustrated, angry, down, fearful, \u2026turn the button to listen to a different tune.<\/p>\n Feeling those low feelings is an indication you have to change something.<\/span><\/p>\n We all want to feel good, we all want to be happy, we all want to be content in life. So, whenever this is not the case, ask yourself:<\/span><\/p>\n What thoughts am I thinking right now?<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n How am I speaking right now?<\/em><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019ll notice you are on a lower vibration.<\/p>\n Consciously change your frequency, turn that button in your head.<\/span><\/p>\n Go to another vibrational frequency.<\/span><\/p>\n Is this make-believe?<\/p>\n Is this sticking your head in the sand?<\/p>\n Is this denying your true feelings?<\/p>\n No!<\/p>\n You do realize how you feel, you do acknowledge these feelings, but then you decide you do not want to dwell on them, as that does not result in solutions, in a change of \u00a0the situation.<\/p>\n You decide you want to move forward.<\/p>\n The only way to do that, is by being on a different level.<\/p>\n