{"id":6747,"date":"2024-08-14T11:26:37","date_gmt":"2024-08-14T09:26:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifecoachwomen.be\/what-you-resist-persists\/"},"modified":"2024-08-14T11:26:37","modified_gmt":"2024-08-14T09:26:37","slug":"what-you-resist-persists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifecoachwomen.be\/en\/what-you-resist-persists\/","title":{"rendered":"What You Resist, Persists."},"content":{"rendered":"

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Have you ever noticed that, the moment you stop stressing about something, the moment you stop fighting against a certain situation, the moment you stop resisting change, \u2026 things seem to become less stressful, less problematic, less frightening, \u2026?<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve needed years and years to believe, and practice, this. And yes, I encounter the occasional slip up now and then. Nobody\u2019s perfect, right? But you can trust me on this one: letting go of resistance, relaxing about a problematic issue, and focusing on \u2018good outcomes\u2019 are game changers.<\/p>\n

We tend to put all of our focus on the problem, on the thing(s) we fear, on all the bad that can happen, \u2026 and that leaves no room to look for solutions, for a positive outcome.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about letting go of the belief that there is a problem that cannot be solved.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about letting go of the belief that our vision is the absolute truth.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about willing to find a solution to the problem.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s all about willing to come to an agreement, which is acceptable to everyone involved.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

I love this saying of dr. Wayne W. Dyer:<\/p>\n

\u201cBelieve it and you\u2019ll see it.\u201d<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

This is very important:<\/p>\n

believe good is coming, <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

believe people are willing, <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

believe all will be okay.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

The moment you let go of believing you are stuck, is the moment your resistance to getting unstuck, stops. The moment your resistance stops, is the moment you\u2019ll start seeing solutions.<\/p>\n

This change of belief, is a change of vibrational* frequency.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

As long as you\u2019re on this lower vibrational frequency, this frequency where problems reside, where \u2018negative thinking\u2019 resides, \u2026 you will never get to a solution because, the problem and the solution do not vibrate on the same frequency.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, you need to actively change frequencies!<\/span><\/strong> It\u2019s not something that happens automatically, no, it\u2019s like you used to turn a button on the old radios to be able to hear another radio station. (And here you can guess my age :-). It\u2019s not something that happened by itself, no, if you wanted to hear a different tune, you needed to get up, go to the radio and turn the button. The same goes for the tune in your life.<\/p>\n

Whenever you are stuck, whenever there is a \u2018situation you\u2019re not happy with\u2019, the first thing you need to do<\/span> is say to yourself: \u201cokay, this is not working, I need to deal with this.\u201d<\/p>\n

This will enable you to let go of your belief that it\u2019s an impossible situation, of the belief that this is unsolvable.<\/p>\n

You open yourself up<\/span> to look for, and to find, answers.<\/p>\n

You are able to let go<\/span> of the belief that your way is the only way.<\/p>\n

Yes, ego\u2019s need to be put aside, there needs to be an openness, a willingness, a mutual intention to get out of that rut.<\/p>\n

If you want something bad enough, you will find a way.<\/p>\n

My invitation to you all this week is:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Whenever you feel unhappy about something, turn that button.<\/p>\n

Say to yourself: I\/we can solve this.<\/p>\n

Take action to come to a mutual acceptable solution.<\/p>\n

Believe in it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t keep on repeating what is not working, focus on finding what does work.<\/p>\n

Let go of \u2018your truth\u2019 and know that more \u2018truths\u2019 exist. Because the longer you hold on to your truth, the longer you keep repeating your version to yourself and\/or to others, the more your brain will believe this as being true, and the bigger the obstacles will become between the problem and working things out.<\/p>\n

Have the courage to go onto that higher vibrational frequency.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Open your heart and your mind.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Enjoy the peace that will come over you.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Thank you all for reading me and for supporting me on Medium! If you want unlimited access to all of my articles and many other authors, you can become a Medium Member and you\u2019ll be supporting me, and all the other authors. Many, many thanks to you all!!!<\/p>\n

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Katrien<\/p>\n

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*\u2018Ask and It Is given\u2019 by Esther and Jerry Hicks.<\/p>\n

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