There is a solution for every problem!
Yes there is!
Don’t ask yourself: why is this happening to me? There is no anwser to that question. Nobody knows why…..
The only thing you DO know is that:
you can take the problem into your own hands,
you can start looking at it from a different angle,
you can start wondering what this might teach you in life.
Forget the hurt, remember the lesson.
Don’t become bitter, become better!!
Shit happens, yes it does, to ALL of us!
All we can do is deal with it, learn from it, and grow, become a better person.
I know this is easier said than done.
But nobody said it would be easy, did they??
First of all, stop staring at your belly button and stop whining about how hard life is for you. (even if it is right now)
Stop focussing on yourself.
Start looking for new ways to deal with the situation, no matter how hard it may seem in the beginning, just look at the situation from a completely different angle.
Take yourself out of the equation and imagine another person in your situation and think about what you would ask, advice, tell that person.
Detach yourself emotionally and start imagining ALL possible solutions. Even the craziests. Dream about the situation being solved, or being turned around into a positive thing.
Once you dream about this ‘solution’, you’ll start seeing it as possible, you’ll start believing there is another way of dealing with your problem.
Believe in it!
Make the decision to start working in that direction.
Once this decision is taken, you’ll notice help coming from everywhere, expected and unexpected!
Keep going on the right path, the path to a positive life and the more you walk that path, the more “luck” you’ll encounter!!
Like attracts like!
You’ll attract things that have the same vibration as you’re on.
If you’re negative, you’ll attract things with low vibrations.
If you’re positive, looking for solutions, you’ll attract things on that same, higher vibration.
Do it and you’ll see!!
Swallow that pride,
Stop acting like a victim,
Put that ego/ drama queen in the freezer,
Take the heated emotion out of the equation,
Take positive action!
Action is worry’s worst enemy!
No matter what the problem is, there always is a solution!!
Focussing on others, focussing on caring for others, focussing on helping others,… is always a good place to start!
Wishing you all a wonderful weekend filled with solutions, new views, other options,…!
Because there IS a solution for every problem, there IS a silver lining to every situation.
shit does not only happen to you,
it happens to everybody!!
The only difference is how people react to it. How they deal with it.
Be the one who turns it into a positive thing, be the one who grows!!
“Our thoughts make us who we are.” Inge Rock
Use them wisely, be careful what you wish for!
Think positive, happy, solution oriented thoughts!
You can learn all about it during the workshops “ Je bent wat je denkt” starting this January (www.lifecoachwomen.be/workshops) Hope to see you there!
Thank you all for reading me!!