What’s going on?

What’s wrong with us people?

No one wants to put in the work anymore!

Everybody is full of excuses!

Everybody wants to be healthy,

but no one wants to eat healthy food.

Everybody wants a fit body,

But no one wants to work out.

Everybody wants to earn a lot of money,

But no one wants to work hard for it.

Everybody wants a happy realtionship,

but no one wants to make an effort.

Everybody wants to have kids,

But once they  have them, people claim they take away their freedom.

I can go on and on and on.

Am I boring you? Does this sound like I am nagging?

Maybe,

But honestly:

is there something that you want and you convince yourself

that you don’t have the time for it?

that some one else is holding you back?

That the circumstances aren’t right?

Yep, I thought so!

Stop whining,

Grow a pair!

It is up to YOU and no one else!

If you really want something in life,

Give it all you have!

Go for it with all your power!

Make it work!

And in the end, even if it does not quite work out exactly the way you thought it would:

at least you can say you’ve tried your absolute best!

No more,

I wish I could,

I wish I had,

I wish,…

Yes,

wish for something,

But then,

work out a plan to get it,

and stick to the plan!

No excuses, you are responsible.

Work hard for it and then:

Enjoy your result!

Obviously, the first thing you have to do before all:

Think long and hard about what you want and why you want it.

Like: you can’t dream of having a family one day and then the next day be dreaming of being a bachelor again! That’s a no brainer!

Decide what your biggest dream is.

Own your dream.

Make it happen.

Only you can do this

Only you can stop yourself!

Wishing you all the courage, the passion, the energy to find what you want most in life and then make it happen!

Thank you for reading me!

Katrien

 

www.lifecoachwomen.be